Should i leave him

My husband is still in prison. I have thought seriously about getting divorced, as we were both actively using throughout our entire relationship. He says he has changed and wants to live life without using, but I am terrified that he will get out and start getting high. Should I follow through with the divorce? Or see what happens when he gets out? Dear Recovering but Conflicted:. When he says he has changed, what exactly does he mean?

People speak louder with their actions than their words. Your recovery should remain your number one priority. Anything that takes you away from that has got to go, and if your husband will not stay sober, that means him as well. Saying otherwise is outdated and not in line with attachment theory.

Dear Unimpressed:. But if the issue is not so black and white, and the behavior is more annoying than unsafe, then the parents should set boundaries for the interactions rather than cut them off altogether.

Yes sometimes it gives too much stress if you are unsure about the break up of your relationship, but it needs you to stand up for yourself and say no to the thing you dont like will live without him life goes on somtimes its better to be alone and peacefull minded thn being in a frustration relationship it is even worse if relationship engages abusive situation.

Are you ready to move on? Vixen Daily. Tweet Tweet Breaking up is sometimes the best possible option for the future of your love life. Sometimes it feels impossible to know if you should do it, or keep trying with him. Take this short quiz now and find out whether you should really break up with him, or whether your relationship deserves a second chance… Take the Quiz! Quiz: Do You Trust Him? In fact, you shouldn't have to force anything. If your guy isn't naturally interested in what's going on with you, then it's probably time to get out.

If he makes you feel guilty every time you don't want to hook up with him, then he probably only wants one thing out of you: sex.

Time to get out of that relationship. Whether he does it subtly or tries to coerce you into sex when you're not interested because, as his girlfriend, he thinks you "owe" it to him, this isn't someone you should be in a relationship with. What he's looking for is not a relationship. Worse, when a partner doesn't know how to control their temper whether directed towards you or others they will likely say and do things out of anger, only to beg for forgiveness and be embarrassed after the fact," Kirsch says.

According to her, your best option is to instead "find a partner who practices self-control and knows how to let things pass.

Is your guy keeping tabs on everything you do that annoys him, and then, bringing it up when you have arguments? Yeah, you don't need a grocery list of everything he perceives you've done "wrong" in the relationship for the past five years.

Kirsch explains, "This is the worst behavior in a relationship and a clear sign it's time to go. A relationship isn't about keeping tabs on one another. Don't walk, but run away from a person who does this.